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Why do I blog?

  1. Improve communication skills
  2. Clarity of thought
  3. To express myself (that’s the motto of the blog-Abhivyakty means expression)
  4. Share my thoughts and experiences with others

During school days, as I would start studying on verandah, my neighbor would turn on radio/TV and put it on high volume. Instead of cursing his jealousy (if any), I maintained calm and developed myself to study/learn in a noisy environment. That proved to be a boon in my later life.

There was a time when I could hardly talk with peers, friends, relatives, known people and strangers, let alone sharing my personal thoughts and experiences. During childhood I was a shy kid reluctant to talk to anybody, as a teenager I was sometimes afraid, sometimes feared of sharing personal things. During school, as a teenager I ignored social networking (I am not talking about online social networking here), sharing and talking with peers solely because I thought it was such a waste of time.

But no! That’s not how the world and society works. After I came to Pune and started working on the job, I realized the importance of communication skills, interpersonal skills and presentation skills among others in addition to intelligence. At times I had to convince others, and at other times I had to order, take permission, delegate, ask for help, and offer help to get the job done.

During course of my employment of 3 years, I pursued M.S. (from BITS Pilani). During 4th semester I had to do a dissertation-all the tasks had to be decided by me and worked upon them-to successfully complete it. During the course of this dissertation, I learnt a lot about the process itself.

Recently I was searching for some “how to” articles on PhD and stumbled upon Azuma’s ‘A graduate school survival guide’. The guide described what the author should have known at the start of the graduate school but had to learn the hard way instead. As the Chinese proverb goes-“To know the road ahead, ask those coming back”, I thought of going through the guide. As the guide offered some tips from an experienced PhD student, I began reading it.

Go, read it. Its not enough just to be academically successful, but be able to inculcate the skills required to survive in this highly competitive world. After reading the guide, I contemplated over my professional experience of 3 years and I have to say my job has taught me some of the skills described in this guide.

Once I get my MS degree, it will be time to start working on PhD. My mother wants her children to pursue formal education as much as possible (whether this is truly an education is altogether a different story; self-learning has to be inculcated)-which is a primary factor for my success in education. I am the first one in my family to complete graduation (I am aware that this is not a big achievement. There are many in this country who have achieved greater heights despite social, economical and cultural hindrances/barriers) and her support and will power helped me to achieve it.

I am happy but not contended:)

Update: Surely I would not have been in a sound condition today had it not been the perseverance of my teachers in the school. I owe a lot to them.

Related post:

https://siddheshabhivyakty.wordpress.com/2009/08/31/a-milestone-reached

I had heard about this movie with relation to Mathematics. I have watched A beautiful Mind-the life of a mathematician, earlier, so I was waiting to see this movie. Yesterday I could watch it on TV-courtesy HBO. The script writers, and director Robert Luketic have taken care that all the technical stuff (including Mathematical theorems) are portrayed correctly, unlike some of Bollywood movies – Ajnabiee (password is shown in plain text), Fida (Shahid Kapoor hacks by typing in “c:\hack.exe” in cmd), etc wherein technical stuff shown has no meaning at all. Anyway, instead of going deeper into how not to make a movie (Archive, moviemaker), I am going to tell the story of movie here.

MIT senior math major Ben Campbell is accepted into Harvard Medical School but cannot afford the $300,000 cost. Despite boasting a 44 MCAT score and a 4.0 GPA, Ben faces fierce competition for the prestigious Robinson Scholarship which would pay for medical school. He is told that he needs a way of “dazzling” Harvard in some way to stand out from from the other extremely well-qualified applicants (a life experience).

Professor Micky Rosa challenges Campbell with the Monty Hall problem (this is one of the probability theory paradoxes. In a nutshell, Monty Hall problem can be stated as- suppose you’re on a game show, and you’re given the choice of three doors: Behind one door is a car; behind the others, goats. You pick a door, say No. 1, and the host, who knows what’s behind the doors, opens another door, say No. 3, which has a goat. He then says to you, “Do you want to pick door No. 2?” Is it to your advantage to switch your choice? ), which Campbell solves successfully. Rosa invites Campbell to join his blackjack team, which consists of fellow students Choi, Fisher, Jill and Kianna. The system involves card counting, and the team—shepherded by Rosa—is split into two groups. “Spotters” play the minimum bet and keep track of the count. They send secret signals to the “big players,” who place large bets whenever the count at a table is favorable. Campbell reluctantly joins the team, telling Rosa he is only doing so until he can pay for medical school.

Rosa takes the team to Las Vegas over many weekends; Campbell comes to enjoy his luxurious lifestyle there. His performance impresses Jill (who falls for him) and Rosa, but Fisher becomes jealous at Campbell’s blackjack success. Rosa kicks a drunken Fisher off the team after he insults Campbell and incites a melee that requires the team to quickly “cash out” (using dancers from their usual strip-club meeting place) before the casino switches chips. Meanwhile, security chief Cole Williams monitors the blackjack team, particularly Campbell.

Campbell, distracted by blackjack, botches his part of a project for the 2.09 engineering competition, estranging him from his pre-blackjack friends. During the next trip to Vegas, an emotionally-distracted Campbell continues playing even after he is signaled to walk away, losing $200,000. An angry Rosa leaves the team and demands Campbell repay him for the loss. Campbell and his three remaining teammates agree to go into business for themselves. Williams apprehends Campbell, physically assails him, then lets him go after giving him a death threat.

Upon his return to Boston, Campbell learns that he has been given an incomplete for one of his classes and therefore will not graduate, and that his winnings have been stolen from his dorm room. He suspects that Rosa is behind everything but has no evidence. Campbell reconciles with his friends and Jill, and approaches Rosa with an offer: He and the team will hit Vegas for one more attempt before the casinos install biometric software that will quickly identify card counters, as long as Rosa—himself once a very successful “big player”—also plays.

Disguised, the team returns to the Planet Hollywood and win $640,000 before fleeing with their chips from Williams and his men. Campbell and Rosa split up, with Rosa taking the bag of chips. Rosa escapes with the intention of stealing the winnings, but finds his bag is full of chocolate coins and his limo is being driven by the casino manager.

The audience then learns that Williams had made a deal with Campbell after beating him up; he would let Campbell come to Vegas for one last night to make a lot of money in exchange for Rosa, who years earlier cost Williams a casino job by winning a seven-figure take via counting cards. Campbell’s pre-blackjack friends joined the team to help their friend. After capturing Rosa, Williams confronts Campbell and double-crosses him by demanding at gunpoint the bag of chips for his retirement. Aware that Ben plans on attending medical school to be a doctor, he assures the young man that everything will work out for him in the end. Ben hands the money over to Williams and leaves. Moments later, Rosa is tied to a chair where Williams greets him, informing the professor that he will turn him over to the IRS for evading taxes on his winnings. Campbell loses money The movie closes with Campbell recounting the entire tale to a “dazzled” Harvard administrator.

Kevin Spacey (as Professor Micky Rosa) tried to imitate University Profs and I must say he was quite successful. The way he portrayed the character, reminded me of Richard Feynman, whose book ‘You are surely joking Mr. Feynman’ I am currently reading and whose lectures on Physics are available online for free.

Bill Gates gave a speech at a High School about 11 things they did not and will not learn in school. He talks about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.

Rule 1 : Life is not fair – get used to it!

Rule 2: The world won’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

Rule 3: You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won’t be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.

Rule 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.

Rule 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.

Rule 6: If you mess up, it’s not your parents’ fault, so don’t whine about your mistakes, learn from them.

Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren’t as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent’s generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.

Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they’ll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn’t bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.

Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.

Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.

Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you’ll end up working for one.

Source: http://pankajkm.blogspot.com/search/label/Interesting%20Information

Keep the Spark Alive

Inaugural Speech for the new batch at the Symbiosis BBA program, Pune

                               23rd June, 2008

By Chetan Bhagat

Good Morning everyone and thank you for giving me this chance to speak to you. This day is about you. You, who have come to this college, leaving the comfort of your homes (or in some cases discomfort), to become something in your life. I am sure you are excited. There are few days in human life when one is truly elated.  The first day in college is one of them.  When you were getting ready today, you felt a tingling in your stomach. What would the auditorium be like, what would the teachers be like, who are my new classmates – there is so much to be curious about. I call this excitement, the spark within you that makes you feel truly alive today. Today I am going to talk about keeping the spark shining. Or to put it another way, how to be happy most, if not all the time.

Where do these sparks start? I think we are born with them. My 3-year old twin boys have a million sparks. A little Spiderman toy can make them jump on the bed. They get thrills from creaky swings in the park. A story from daddy gets them excited. They do a daily countdown for birthday party – several months in advance – just for the day they will cut their own birthday cake.

I see students like you, and I still see some sparks. But when I see older people, the spark is difficult to find. That means as we age, the spark fades. People whose spark has faded too much are dull, dejected, aimless and bitter. Remember Kareena in the first half of Jab We Met vs the second half? That is what happens when the spark is lost.   So how to save the spark?

Imagine the spark to be a lamp’s flame. The first aspect is nurturing – to give your spark the fuel, continuously. The second is to guard against storms.

To nurture, always have goals. It is human nature to strive, improve and achieve full potential. In fact, that is success. It is what is possible for you. It isn’t any external measure – a certain cost to company pay package, a particular car or house.

Most of us are from middle class families. To us, having material landmarks is success and rightly so. When you have grown up where money constraints force everyday choices, financial freedom is a big achievement. But it isn’t the purpose of life. If that was the case, Mr. Ambani would not show up for work. Shah Rukh Khan would stay at home and not dance anymore. Steve Jobs won’t be working hard to make a better iPhone, as he sold Pixar for billions of dollars already. Why do they do it? What makes them come to work everyday? They do it because it makes them happy. They do it because it makes them feel alive. Just getting better from current levels feels good. If you study hard, you can improve your rank. If you make an effort to interact with people, you will do better in interviews. If you practice, your cricket will get better. You may also know that you cannot become Tendulkar, yet. But you can get to the next level. Striving for that next level is important.

Nature designed with a random set of genes and circumstances in which we were born. To be happy, we have to accept it and make the most of nature’s design. Are you? Goals will help you do that.

I must add, don’t just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order.

There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.

You must have read some quotes – Life is a tough race, it is a marathon or whatever. No, from what I have seen so far, life is one of those races in nursery school, where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same with life, where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die.

One last thing about nurturing the spark – don’t take life seriously. One of my yoga teachers used to make students laugh during classes. One student asked him if these jokes would take away something from the yoga practice. The teacher said – don’t be serious, be sincere. This quote has defined my work ever since. Whether its my writing, my job, my relationships or any of my goals. I get thousands of opinions on my writing everyday. There is heaps of praise, there is intense criticism. If I take it all seriously, how will I write? Or rather, how will I live? Life is not to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up? It’s ok, bunk a few classes, goof up a few interviews, fall in love. We are people, not programmed devices.

 I’ve told you three things – reasonable goals, balance and not taking it too seriously that will nurture the spark. However, there are four storms in life that will threaten to completely put out the flame. These must be guarded against. These are disappointment, frustration, unfairness and loneliness of purpose.

Disappointment will come when your effort does not give you the expected return. If things don’t go as planned or if you face failure. Failure is extremely difficult to handle, but those that do come out stronger. What did this failure teach me? is the question you will need to ask. You will feel miserable. You will want to quit, like I wanted to when nine publishers rejected my first book. Some IITians kill themselves over low grades – how silly is that? But that is how much failure can hurt you. But it’s life. If challenges could always be overcome, they would cease to be a challenge. And remember – if you are failing at something, that means you are at your limit or potential. And that’s where you want to be.

Disappointment’s cousin is  frustration, the second storm.  Have you ever been frustrated? It happens when things are stuck. This is especially relevant in India. From traffic jams to getting that job you deserve, sometimes things take so long that you don’t know if you chose the right goal. After books, I set the goal of writing for Bollywood, as I thought they needed writers. I am called extremely lucky, but it took me five years to get close to  a release.

 

Frustration saps excitement, and turns your initial energy into something negative, making you a bitter person. How did I deal with it? A realistic assessment of the time involved – movies take a long time to make even though they are watched quickly, seeking a certain enjoyment in the process rather than the end result – at least I was learning how to write scripts, having a side plan – I had my third book to write and even something as simple as pleasurable distractions in your life  - friends, food, travel can help you overcome it.

Remember, nothing is to be taken seriously. Frustration is a sign somewhere, you took it too seriously.

Unfairness – this is hardest to deal with, but unfortunately that is how our country works. People with connections, rich dads, beautiful faces, pedigree find it easier to make it – not just in Bollywood, but everywhere. And sometimes it is just plain luck. There are so few opportunities in India, so many stars need to be aligned for you to make it happen. Merit and hard work is not always linked to achievement in the short term, but the long term correlation is high, and ultimately things do work out. But realize, there will be some people luckier than you. In fact, to have an opportunity to go to college and understand this speech in English means you are pretty damm lucky by Indian standards.. Let’s be grateful for what we have and get the strength to accept what we don’t. I have so much love from my readers that other writers cannot even imagine it. However, I don’t get literary praise. It’s ok. I don’t look like Aishwarya Rai, but I have two boys who I think are more beautiful than her.. It’s ok. Don’t let unfairness kill your spark.

Finally, the last point that can kill your spark is isolation. As you grow older you will realize you are unique. When you are little, all kids want Ice cream and Spiderman. As you grow older to college, you still are a lot like your friends. But ten years later and you realize you are unique. What you want, what you believe in, what makes you feel, may be different from even the people closest to you. This can create conflict as your goals may not match with others. . And you may drop some of them. Basketball captains in college invariably stop playing basketball by the time the have their second child. They give up something that meant so much to them. They do it for their family. But in doing that, the spark dies. Never, ever make that compromise. Love yourself first, and then others.

There you go. I’ve told you the four thunderstorms – disappointment, frustration, unfairness and isolation. You cannot avoid them, as like the monsoon they will come into your life at regular intervals. You just need to keep the raincoat handy to not let the spark die.

 I welcome you again to the most wonderful years of your life. If someone gave me the choice to go back in time, I will surely choose college. But I also hope that ten years later as well, your eyes will shine the same way as they do today. That you will Keep the Spark alive, not only through college, but through the next 2,500 weekends. And I hope not just you, but my whole country will keep that spark alive, as we really need it now more than any moment in history. And there is something cool about saying – I come from the land of a billion sparks.

Thank You!

India is in no other moods than IPL. While surfing on net for cricket, I came across this nice article on Cricket by John Major

All my life cricket has been a joy. My sister taught me the game when I was very young, and it met a need that has never gone away.She would bowl to me as I clutched a tiny bat and tried to defend the wicket chalked on our garage door.

I was rather embarrassed by my sister’s tutelage until I learned that W.G. Grace had been taught under the eagle eye of his mother. That made me feel better, but not play better.

John Major, a keen cricketer, once scored 33 runs in 3 oversJohn Major, a keen cricketer, once scored 33 runs in 3 oversThere was no coaching at my primary school but we did play cricket. I can relive one incident that, over half a century on, still brings a hot flush of embarrassment to my face.It was a game in which, for the first time, I wore full whites, pads and gloves and had my own bat. I was expected to score runs, and that made me even more nervous ? caring too much rarely produces the best outcome, as I was to learn later in life.I strode to the wicket, took guard and prepared for the first ball. I played forward and felt the ball hit the middle of the bat.But the boy at first slip appealed, and the umpire/teacher raised his forefinger theatrically and gave me out, leg before wicket. I was mortified and, without thought, stuttered: But, but, I hit it!?Uproar ensued. Out-snarled the umpire/ teacher. Off.? He was now waving his arm like a windmill. He was right, of course, that I should not have questioned his decision.He was not right to mutter ?Bloody boy? as, head down, I walked off, shamed and burning with injustice. That teacher’s angry face is imprinted for ever on my mind, but not even he could turn me away from cricket.

To my deep disappointment my parents were never able to see me play. They had many reasons: chronic ill health, worry, the struggle to make ends meet. They were old, too.When I was six my father was 70 and my mother closer to 50 than 40. Both smoked, and their poor health was made worse by the foul habit.It would kill my mother in the end, but for many years before that, hacking coughs and shortage of breath were a daily occurrence.And they were exotics: our neighbourhood did not house many ex-trapeze artists, gauchos, jugglers, card-sharps or specialty dancers. Even as a boy I knew my parents were not to be judged by the usual criteria. Once, I was certain they would come to the match. Our school team was due to play close to our home. I wrote instructions for my parents on how to get there.I was captain and set a field with myself at cover-point and midwicket so I had a view of the entrance gate, but neither of my parents came.My father had been doubtful anyway? He was losing his eyesight, although as a nine-year-old I was not aware of that. And my mother was too ill with her interminable bronchitis. As I carried old Dr Robinson’s prescription to the chemist the following morning, I vowed I would never smoke. Cricket entered my bloodstream when I was a child and it has given me a lifetime of enjoyment and solace. It delights the eye and touches the soul.

Part of this is physical: the smell of linseed oil on willow, the feel of ball on bat, the pleasure of holding a shiny new red ball, the clatter of disturbed stumps and, on the best of days, the scent of newly-mown grass under the warmth of the rising sun.

John Major, outside 11 Downing Street before delivering a budgetJohn Major in more familiar pose, outside 11 Downing Street before delivering a budget as chancellor in Thatcher’s government

One does not have to be talented to be besotted by cricket, as a thousand village games prove each summer. I saw this at school. One boy, whose anonymity I shall protect, practiced in the nets for hours. And often, I suspect, in front of a mirror! For every batting movement ended in a pose of classical perfection.No whites were ever more beautifully pressed, or pads or boots whiter, or bat more beautifully oiled. When, head high, he strode out to the wicket, he oozed class and confidence.Alas, he put so much into the elegance of every stroke that he overlooked the need to hit the ball, and all too soon would turn in surprise to look at his shattered stumps. He left the crease gracefully, head still high, as if he were returning to the pavilion in triumph.He was never downhearted. He would tell us he had been beaten in the flight or off the pitch; and, theorists all, no one suggested he had, again, just missed a straight one.He knew the spirit in which the game should be played and he reveled in it. Runs or not, it was enough for him to be on a cricket pitch.I was so lucky cricket was played at my grammar school; it was, with rugby, the only activity that made the experience bearable.

During one game the pitch was within striking distance of some windows, and the temptation to put the ball through one was irresistible. The prize was to be a pint of illicit beer: I was only 14 at the time, and such devilment appealed. A cross-batted heave missed the main target but did crash through an adjacent church window. The tinkle of glass brought a great cheer. It was enough. A triumph was celebrated. Not long afterwards a heavier drink, scrumpy, caused more trouble. I drank a little too much, and as I travelled home it began to extort its revenge. When my father opened the door, I was on my knees barking at him. I thought it was funny. He did not. Only my mother’s intervention saved me from being banned from cricket. I was no cricketing prodigy, but nor was I a complete mug. I had my days, and they remain precious memories: 50 runs in a house match, with the winning hit a straight four that whistled past the bowler’s nose; 33 runs scored in three overs to win a game; seven wickets for nine runs, including a hat-trick. A meagre return for my love of the game, you might think, but only if you don’t know cricket.

Runs, wickets and catches are all very well, but they don’t capture the fun of it all; the camaraderie, the hopes, the disasters, the wins, defeats and close finishes, the sunny days and the wet ones, all memories every cricketer locks away for the dark months when the summer game is in hibernation.

When my father finally lost his eyesight and all his money in the Fifties, our family were uprooted from our bungalow in Surrey to two rooms of a multi-occupied Victorian relic in Brixton. It lacked finesse but it was within walking distance of the Kennington Oval at a time when Surrey had the greatest county team of all. I camped out at The Oval during the summer as a devoted spectator. It cannot have been so, but memory insists that the sun always shone and Surrey always won. The Fifties were also a time of massive immigration from the West Indies, and many of the new Britons settled in Brixton. Our house was multi-racial for a time and it provided a good primer on poverty for a future Conservative Prime Minister. I knew the immigrants as neighbors. I played with their children. I shopped with them in Brixton Market. I saw them for what they were: men and women seeking a new life in a land immeasurably wealthier than the ones they had left behind. Others saw them in a harsher light, fearing for their livelihoods. Pessimists predicted trouble. People waited for the riots, the lawlessness. They waited in vain. The new Britons settled in. The dire predictions proved to be wrong. Instead of inciting fear, the bigots should have gone to The Oval where, when the West Indies played, it was carnival time: the atmosphere was full of fun. For those in the packed ground the painful reality of life in Brixton was put aside. Prejudice and hardship were daily companions to the new Brixtonians, but the way the West Indians played and conducted themselves in victory did much to help.

A few years earlier they had taken on England at her own game, at the very headquarters of cricket. And they beat her on merit. Perhaps no win in cricket ever had such social significance as Ramadhin and Valentine’s destruction of England at Lords in June 1950. As a result, all West Indians walked a little taller because their national cricket team had lifted their morale. When not at The Oval, I spent hour upon hour defending a Brixton lamp-post against the bowling of any passer-by. Only bad light, normally in the form of nightfall, stopped play.

In 1966 my love of playing the game came to a premature end when a car accident in northern Nigeria left me with a leg so shattered it was almost lost; but that did not mean I would never again pick up a bat. While Prime Minister, I attended a meeting of Commonwealth leaders in Zimbabwe in 1991 and opened the batting in a charity match at Harare with Australian Prime Minister Bob Hawke. The previous evening Bob had entertained us all with a selection of Australian songs, mostly unrepeatable, and we shared more beers than was wise. The following morning, Bob and I opened at a gentle pace, with him stealing the bowling towards the end of each over. I didn’t mind: I was happy just to be there. We tapped the ball here and there and ran our singles.After a few overs the wisdom of the Hawke strategy was revealed. “Off you go,” said the umpire, waving us off the pitch as he added, rather pointedly: ?Its time for the real cricketers.?Hawke had scored 20 or so, while I had fewer than ten. ?Did you know we didn’t have long?? I asked him as we trudged back to the pavilion.?Jeez, yes,? he admitted, a Cheshire cat-sized grin splitting his features. ?Didn’t you know, John? Heck ? I thought you did.? Not for the first or the last time, I noted that Australians play hard.

Forty years after I first visited The Oval, I came to know the Surrey club from the inside. During my years in government The Oval was a sanctuary where cares were put aside. Upon the morrow of defeat in the 1997 General Election, I bade my farewells to Downing Street and the Queen and headed to The Oval for a leisurely lunch and a soothing afternoon of cricket. Nor did the balm fail me.‘You had a rough decision, mate,’ called out a gnarled regular, before turning to more important matters. ‘This boy is a good bat.’ A wet day makes a conversationalist of the most taciturn cricket-lover. Once, a rain-drenched hour at The Oval was filled with a discussion about Don Bradman’s last Test innings, when the great man was bowled second ball by Eric Hollies for a duck in the final Test of the 1948 series. It is a story every cricket-lover knows, and we were debating at which end the Don was batting. Someone turned to Arthur Morris, the former Australian Test batsman, who was listening silently as he sipped a glass of red wine. ‘Surely you must know, Arthur? Were you in that team?’ asked an ignoramus.‘Yes,’ said Arthur, sipping placidly. ‘I was at the other end when Don was out. I scored 196. ‘There is a postscript to this story. As Bradman returned to the pavilion, he was stopped in the Long Room by Field Marshal Montgomery, who had famously encouraged his troops to hit Rommel for six. Montgomery barked at him: “Sit down, Bradman, and I will tell you where you went wrong.” The absurdity of anyone telling the most prolific run-getter of all time how to bat apparently escaped the old soldier. Bradman revealed this vignette in a letter to the Surrey Club many years later; he did not mention whether he had taken the opportunity to criticize the Field Marshal’s battle plan at El Alamein, but probably he did not. This was wise as Montgomery was never plagued by self-doubt. A man who can say ‘As God said’ and on the whole, he was right . . .’ is not a man to be crossed.

When I was Prime Minister, Cabinet met on Thursdays, at the same time as Test matches began. In those days Cabinet debated policy and took decisions, so the meeting lasted until lunchtime. From time to time folded messages would be brought in to me by the duty clerk. I would read them before passing them to Robin Butler, the Cabinet Secretary, and from him they would cross the table to Ken Clarke, the Chancellor and later President of Nottinghamshire County Cricket Club. Grimaces or smiles would follow. These notes drove Deputy Prime Minister Michael Heseltine to distraction. Prime Minister, Cabinet Secretary, Chancellor . . . was Sterling crashing? Was there a crisis? A ministerial resignation? No: they were the Test scores.

The game can be a bridge between opposites. The late Bob Cryer, a very Left-wing Labour MP, would always stop to talk cricket with me.John Redwood, the Right-wing Tory MP who in 1995 attempted with great gusto to pitch me out of No10, would do the same.Cricket can also bind friendships. When the Conservative Party lost the Election in 1997, John Howard, Prime Minister of Australia, was among my first visitors, and as a consolation he presented me with that Australian symbol, a baggy green cap: it is a treasured possession. Four years later I was talking about cricket caps and helmets to the old Australian Test all-rounder Sam Loxton. ‘Helmets?’ scoffed Sam. ‘I didn’t even wear a helmet at Tobruk!’ Some years later, Sam presented me with an authentic Australian helmet. I was forever grateful we’d talked about helmets, not protectors ? although I doubt Sam wore one of those at Tobruk either.

A few years ago I was invited to Barbados to deliver the annual Frank Worrell Lecture. The following evening a galaxy of Caribbean cricketers ? Everton Weekes, Clyde Walcott, Garry Sobers and Wes Hall ? attended a dinner for me at the British High Commission. Cricket conquers all differences, and I, although an ex-Conservative Prime Minister, enjoyed some memorable cricketing exchanges with the old West Indian opener Alan Rae, whose politics were very different. Someone on that lovely evening ? Wes Hall, I think ? referred to cricket as the happy game: ‘You can’t play cricket if you’re unhappy, and you can’t be unhappy if you do play cricket.’ It has certainly been true in my own life. Cricket attracts all sorts. When the actor Boris Karloff, an enthusiastic amateur wicket-keeper, visited The Oval, Surrey weren’t sure what to do with him.He was watching the cricket from the balcony when, in reply to a polite enquiry from an anxious host, he muttered in that inimitable voice: ‘Wonderful. I think I’m dead and gone to Heaven.’

Another character was the celebrated aeronautical engineer Sir George Edwards. When he was around 90, I was on The Oval balcony with him as a guest asked him, rather pompously, what he remembered of the Second World War and what, if anything, he’d done in it .George smiled. ‘I helped design the Wellington bomber,’ he said, ‘if that counts.’ I treasure that understatement: George worked with Sir Barnes Wallis on the ‘bouncing bomb’ that destroyed the great German dams but which, in early tests, kept sinking. George, a keen cricketer, knew why. ‘It’s underspin, not overspin,’ he explained. Barnes Wallis relented, and the Dam Busters took out the Mohne, Sorpe and Eder dams with a leg-break. Although cricket is the very essence of England, the skills of Bradman and Sobers, of Hadlee and Tendulkar, are evidence that the game has far outstripped the land of its birth.England no longer owns cricket. Like radar, penicillin, electricity, the steam engine, railways, the jet engine, computers and the worldwide web, cricket is an English invention; an export as potent as the English language itself.

At one level it is a game and no more; at another it helped cement an Empire and bind a Commonwealth. Its legacy is a fellowship of cricket-lovers across continents and through generations.

Source: http://www.mailonsunday.co.uk/news/article-451336/Why-cricket-important-Prime-Minister.html

Vivek Pradhan was not a happy man. Even the plush comfort of the air-conditioned compartment of the Shatabdi express could not cool his frayed nerves.

He was the Project Manager and still not entitled to air travel. It was not the prestige he sought; he had tried to reason with the admin person, it was the savings in time. As PM, he had so many things to do!!

He opened his case and took out the laptop, determined to put the time to some good use. “Are you from the software industry sir,” the man beside him was staring appreciatively at the laptop. Vivek glanced briefly and mumbled in affirmation, handling the laptop now with exaggerated care and importance as if it were an expensive car.

“You people have brought so much advancement to the country, Sir. Today everything is getting computerized. “
“Thanks,” smiled Vivek, turning around to give the man a look.

He always found it difficult to resist appreciation. The man was young and well built like a sportsman. He looked simple and strangely out of place in that little lap of luxury like a small town boy in a prep school.

He probably was a railway sportsman making the most of his free traveling pass. “You people always amaze me,” the man continued, “You sit in an office and write something on a computer and it does so many big things outside.”

Vivek smiled deprecatingly. Naiveness demanded reasoning not anger. “It is not as simple as that my friend. It is not just a question of writing a few lines. There is a lot of process that goes behind it.”

For a moment, he was tempted to explain the entire Software Development Lifecycle but restrained himself to a single statement. “It is complex, very complex.”
“It has to be. No wonder you people are so highly paid,” came the reply.

This was not turning out as Vivek had thought. A hint of belligerence crept into his so far affable, persuasive tone. “Everyone just sees the money. No one sees the amount of hard work we have to put in. Indians have such a narrow concept of hard work. Just because we sit in an air-conditioned office, does not mean our brows do not sweat.

You exercise the muscle; we exercise the mind and believe me that is no less taxing.” He could see, he had the man where he wanted, and it was time to drive home the point.

“Let me give you an example. Take this train. The entire railway reservation system is computerized. You can book a train ticket between any two stations from any of the hundreds of computerized booking centres across the country. Thousands of transactions accessing a single database, at a time concurrently; data integrity, locking, data security. Do you understand the complexity in designing and coding such a system?”

The man was awestruck; quite like a child at a planetarium. This was something big and beyond his imagination. “You design and code such things.”  “I used to,” Vivek paused for effect, “but now I am the Project Manager.” “Oh!” sighed the man, as if the storm had passed over, “so your life is easy now.”

This was like the last straw for Vivek. He retorted, “Oh come on, does life ever get easy as you go up the ladder. Responsibility only brings more work. Design and coding! That is the easier part.”

Now I do not do it, but I am responsible for it and believe me, that is far more stressful. My job is to get the work done in time and with the highest quality. To tell you about the pressures, there is the customer at one end, always changing his requirements, the user at the other, wanting something else, and your boss, always expecting you to have finished it yesterday.”

Vivek paused in his diatribe, his belligerence fading with self-realisation. What he had said, was not merely the outburst of a wronged man, it was the truth. And one need not get angry while defending the truth. “My friend,” he concluded triumphantly, “you don’t know what it is to be in the Line of Fire”.

The man sat back in his chair, his eyes closed as if in realization. When he spoke after sometime, it was with a calm certainty that surprised Vivek.

“I know sir; I know what it is to be in the Line of Fire.” He was staring blankly, as if no passenger, no train existed, just a vast expanse of time.

“There were 30 of us when we were ordered to capture Point 4875 in the cover of the night. The enemy was firing from the top. There was no knowing where the next bullet was going to come from and for whom. In the morning when we finally hoisted the tricolour at the top only 4 of us were alive.”

“You are a…?”

“I am Subedar Sushant from the 13 J&K Rifles on duty at Peak 4875 in Kargil. They tell me I have completed my term and can opt for a soft assignment.

But, tell me sir, can one give up duty just because it makes life easier. On the dawn of that capture, one of my colleagues lay injured in the snow, open to enemy fire while we were hiding behind a bunker. It was my job to go and fetch that soldier to safety.

But my captain sahib refused me permission and went ahead himself. He said that the first pledge he had taken as a Gentleman Cadet was to put the safety and welfare of the nation foremost followed by the safety and welfare of the men he commanded… ….his own personal safety came last, always and every time.”

“He was killed as he shielded and brought that injured soldier into the bunker. Every morning thereafter, as we stood guard, I could see him taking all those bullets, which were actually meant for me. I know sir….I know, what it is to be in the Line of Fire.”

Vivek looked at him in disbelief not sure of how to respond. Abruptly, he switched off the laptop. It seemed trivial, even insulting to edit a Word document in the presence of a man for whom velour and duty was a daily part of life; velour and sense of duty which he had so far attributed only to epical heroes.

The train slowed down as it pulled into the station, and Subedar Sushant picked up his bags to alight.

“It was nice meeting you sir.”

Vivek fumbled with the handshake. This hand… had climbed mountains, pressed the trigger, and hoisted the tricolour.

Suddenly, as if by impulse, he stood up at attention and his right hand went up in an impromptu salute.

It was the least he felt he could do for the country.

(PS: The incident he narrated during the capture of Peak 4875 is a true-life incident during the Kargil war. Capt. Batra sacrificed his life while trying to save one of the men he commanded, as victory was within sight. For this and various other acts of bravery, he was awarded the Param Vir Chakra, the nation’s highest military award. )

Live humbly, there are great people around us, let us learn!

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It was late in the evening when I entered Howrah Station .It was teeming
with office workers returning home after a typically tiring day at work. I
didn’t look forward to the prospect of returning home to my husband. The
love between us had died years ago. Our marriage had been transformed into a
dead corpse buried deep beneath a pile of painful memories. The bits and
pieces of pleasure I derived from my daily existence were my only source of
sustenance. My husband had accused me of being mentally deranged. But only I
know better. He should have thought of a better reason than that to get rid
of me.

I hauled my self into a train standing nearby. Finding a seat lying vacant I
gleefully slid into it. After having exhausted myself at work securing a
place to ease my legs was a welcome relief. The scene inside the train was
disquieting. The train being the last one on that particular route, it
wasn’t long before the compartment was bursting to the full with people.
They jostled and fought with each other in a desperate attempt to keep from
falling off.

June is the hottest month in Kolkata; it’s when the when the summers are at
the peak of their torment. The sweltering heat conspired with the
intolerable humidity to beat the lives out of the commuters. The stench from
the garbage rotting on the rail tracks combined with the nauseating smell of
human sweat to pervade the whole atmosphere. I felt like vomiting. I
subconsciously swallowed the spittle that formed in my throat. In despair, I
stared up at the ceiling for comfort. A solitary fan hung up there in a
state of eternal rest, hideously shrouded in spider webs. I closed my eyes
in a bid to rest my mind. Slowly I allowed myself to fall into a labored
slumber.

When I awoke the train had traveled far into the countryside. The seat next
to mine was occupied by a pretty nymphet. She had a concerned look on her
face. The object of her anxiety was seated right opposite to us. He was the
most loathsome, horrid specimen of mankind I had ever seen. He evidently
appeared to be a village goon of some reputation. His bloodshot eyes were
planted firmly on the girl. She squirmed uncomfortably in her seat under his
leering looks. The redness of his eyes was indicative of the fact that he
had soaked himself in liquor far exceeding socially acceptable limits.

The girl’s nervousness was infectious. I looked around the compartment. It
was completely vacant except for the three of us. I began to grow uneasy.
The girl pressed my hand and held up a piece of newspaper for my inspection.
She pointed towards a front-page news report. It was on a sensational serial
killer who had been haunting Kolkatans for the past couple of weeks. Six
young girls had been murdered in different parts of the city. They were
discovered with their throats brutally slit open. The killings had been
executed with such meticulous efficiency that the murder scenes were totally
devoid of any clues. The police were baffled. The report went on to draw
parallels with the legendary ‘Stoneman’ who had terrorized Calcutta in early
the 90′s and whose identity was yet to be ascertained. The report was
undeniably scary and chilling to the bone.

The girl had visibly paled. She motioned with her eyes indicating to me that
she considered the man sitting opposite to be a prime suspect. The girl was
badly scared and I must admit I was pretty worried myself. Suddenly the
train slowed as it approached an oncoming station. I was contemplating the
feasibility of getting off the train, well before my intended destination,
when the man himself stood up. To my utter surprise and immense joy he
hopped off the train as it came to a screeching halt. The girl looked at me
and both of us let out a huge sigh of relief. The tension having been
released, she began to giggle. I caught up with her silly laughter and soon
both of us were laughing away in abandon.

With a rude jerk the train started moving. Soon it was speeding across vast
open countryside at a furious pace. Her jangled nerves having been calmed,
the girl had begun to doze in her seat. As I looked at her I wondered just
how naïve and unsuspecting young girls can be. I slipped my hand inside my
handbag and firmly gripped the kitchen knife I always carried. I felt a
strange numbness in my fingers but it had to be done.
Besides she had an exceedingly beautiful neck. Such a pity!

This poem is one of my favourites -

Raah dekhi thi is din ki kabse,
Aage ke sapne saja rakhe the naajane kab se.
Bade utavle the yahaan se jaane ko,
Zindagi ka agla padaav paane ko.
Par naa jane kyon ..Dil mein aaj kuch aur aata hai,
Waqt ko rokne ka jee chahta hai.
Jin baton ko lekar rote the Aaj un par hansi aati hai,
Na jaane kyon aaj un palon ki yaad bahut aati hai.
Kaha karte the ..Badi mushkil se char saal seh gaya,
Par aaj kyon lagta hai ki kuch peeche reh gaya.
Na bhoolne wali kuch yaadein reh gayi,
Yaadien jo ab jeene ka sahara ban gayi.
Meri taang ab kaun kheencha karega,
Sirf mera sir khane kaun mera peecha karega.
Jahaan 2000 ka hisaab nahin wahaan 2 rupay ke liye kaun ladega,
Kaun raat bhar saath jag kar padega,
KAUN MERI gaadi mujse pooche bina lejayega,
Kaun mere naye naye naam banayega.
Mein ab bina matlab kis se ladoonga,
Bina topic ke kisse faalto baat karoonga,
Kaun fail hone par dilasa dilayega,
Kaun galti se number aane par gaaliyaan sunayega.
Tapri mein Chai kis ke saath piyoonga,
Wo haseen pal ab kis ke saath jiyoonga,
Aise dost kahaan milenge Jo khai mein bhi dhakka de aayein,
Par fir tumhein bachane khud bhi kood jayein.
Mere gaano se pareshaan kaun hoga,
Kabhi muje kisi ladki se baat karte dekh hairaan kaun hoga,
Kaun kahega saale tere joke pe hansi nahin aai,
Kaun peeche se bula ke kahega..aage dekh bhai.
Movies mein kiske saath dekhhonga,
Kis ke saath boring lectures jheloonga,
Bina dare sachi rai dene ki himmat kaun karega. 

Achanak bin matlab ke kisi ko bhi dekh kar paglon ki tarah hansna,
Na jaane ye fir kab hoga. 

Doston ke liye professor se kab lad payenge,
Kya hum ye fir kar payenge,
Raat ko 2 baje poha khane station kaun jayega,
Tez gaadi chalane ki shart kaun lagayega. 

Kaun muje mere kabiliyat par bharosa dilayega,
Aur jyada hawa mein udne par zameen pe layege,
Meri khushi mein sach mein khush kaun hoga,
Mere gam mein muj se jyada dukhi kaun hoga… 

KEH DO DOSTON YE DOBAARA KAB HOGA

 

जयोऽस्तु ते

 

जयोऽस्तु ते!
जयोऽस्तु ते!

श्री महन्मंगले
शिवास्पदे शुभदे

स्वतंत्रते
भगवती त्वामहम्
यशोयुतां वंदे!

गालावरच्या
कुसुमी किंवा
कुसुमांच्या
गाली

स्वतंत्रते
भगवती तूच जी
विलसतसे लाली

तू सूर्याचे
तेज उदधीचे
गांभीर्यही
तूची

स्वतंत्रते
भगवती अन्यथा
ग्रहण नष्ट
तेची

वंदे त्वामहम्
यशोयुतां वंदे!

 

मोक्ष-मुक्ती
ही तुझीच रूपे
तूलाच वेदांती

स्वतंत्रते
भगवती योगिजन
परब्रह्म वदती

जे जे उत्तम
उदात्त उन्नत
महन्मधुर ते
ते

स्वतंत्रते
भगवती सर्व
तव सहचारी होते

वंदे त्वामहम्
यशोयुतां वंदे!

 

-विनायक दामोदर
सावरकर

 

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